The Job is Gone. Now What? How to Lead Yourself Through Career Loss

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Child faceplant after fall, symbolizing the shock of unexpected career loss. Caption “Now What?” represents moments of job loss, career disruption, and the emotional aftermath before rebuilding confidence. #iamenough

NO!!!!  This can't be happening to me.

 

You’ve just gotten the news.

 

Your role has been eliminated. Your contract wasn’t renewed. Your badge is no longer active.

 

And your brain goes into overdrive:

  • But I’ve worked so hard…
  • How could they let me go?
  • How am I going to pay the bills?
  • What will I tell people?
  • Who am I without this job?

 

Let’s pause right here:

 

This isn’t drama. This is grief.

 

And if you’re in the thick of it right now, let me say this clearly:

I see you. I honor your shock. And no... this isn’t fair.

 

We don’t talk enough about the heartbreak that comes from losing a job.

Not just the paycheck, but the structure, the identity, the sense of purpose.

But once the initial shock wears off... Something else starts to crack through the fog:

A quiet realization.
A whisper of truth.

“I still have a choice.”

  • Even when the job is gone...
  • Even when the plan fell apart…
  • Even when it feels like everything is uncertain...

 

You are still enough.

You still hold value.

You still have impact to give and brilliance to share.

 

But before you charge ahead, let’s take a moment to root you back in yourself.

 

3 Power Moves for When the Ground Shifts Under You

🟨 1. Name the loss.

  • It’s not “just a job.” It was a chapter of your life.
  • Write out what you’re grieving: structure, security, connection, recognition—whatever is real for you.
  • Naming it is the first step in owning it (so it doesn’t own you).

 

🟥 2. Reclaim your worth.

  • You are not your job title.
  • Write down 5 things that make you valuable—outside of your last role.
  • Think character. Strengths. Ways you showed up when no one was watching.

 

🟦 3. Take one next aligned step.

  • Not the whole plan. Not the 5-year roadmap.
  • Just one move. Update your resume. Text a mentor. Rest your body.
  • Start where you are. Move with intention.

 

This isn’t toxic positivity.

It’s not a silver lining moment.

This is a call to reconnect with your power,even when life tries to knock it out of you.

You are allowed to grieve.
You are allowed to feel scared.
And you are allowed to rise again.

 

One power move at a time.

 

#iamenough to rebuild... on my terms.